UPSB v3
General Discussion / Dating
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 01:22:02
So?
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 01:22:49
Undecided because I'm a loser. =]
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 01:23:15
I voted yes. But it depends on how hot she is.
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 01:24:39
Rofl wtf.
Yeah, why not? -
Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 01:24:43
mindless lustful encounter, w/e
dating, no
i find it repulsive when a girl dislikes my passions -
Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 01:30:25
If you got into pen spinning before dating that person, then no, I would not like to date a girl who hates what I love.
But, luckily for me, I'm teaching my girlfriend ps
Thread should be re-named "Would you quit pen spinning for you gf/bf?" imo -
Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 01:44:53
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 01:51:49
I voted for undecided but I'm kinda thinking no now.
I couldn't imagine a relationship with someone who
doesn't like what I do going very far.. -
Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 02:05:21
Hmm, not quite the same Zbo. I got the sense that Eso's thread was asking whether you would want your partner to like spinning after you had begun dating. My question is asking whether you would date someone in the first place if they were unable to tolerate your spinning a pen.
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 02:07:39
Hrm I couldn't it would be like dating a christian girl... that didn't work out to well.
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 02:40:17
im a loser but i wouldnt cuz i ps too much... and rly screw relationships just stay with ur friends who u can piss off repeatedly
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 03:35:08
I would try, I am not sure how well it would work out if she couldn't stand what I do, I figure worth a shot. It can be nice seeing people you don't normally see, even if it doesn't work out relationship wise you can always learn something from them.
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 03:39:37
LOL, I would but if she turned around and said I'm breaking up with you because you pen spin (assuming she hates it that much) or if she said I would only date you if you stopped, screw her.
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Date: Sat, Oct 11 2008 03:41:22
dont date her, she doesnt like who u r so dont. fail should be in off topic and there r too many theards about this
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Date: Sun, Oct 12 2008 13:47:43
as long as it didnt affect us, like i could spin when shes not around (or looking
) and it wouldnt change anything
but if she went and said, "i dont want u to spin any more... ever" it wont work coz im not stopping a hobby coz some1 else doesnt like it, if i matter enough, they will tolerate it or love it -
Date: Sun, Oct 12 2008 17:08:49
i would. i dont spin outside the comfort zone of my computer so its all good. =D
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Date: Sun, Oct 12 2008 17:20:01
If I loved her for who she is, then she should love me for who I am.
-voted Yes. -
Date: Sun, Oct 12 2008 18:02:24
For me, pen spinning is a hobby, not my life. So I would.
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Date: Sun, Oct 12 2008 18:13:55
It depends on what you mean by "can't tolerate your penspinning."
If she just doesn't want me to spin around her for whatever reason, then that could be a reasonable compromise. It's kind of funny how people here are saying "she/he doesn't like you for who you are" because she/he doesn't like penspinning. People in relationships aren't supposed to have the exact same hobbies/interests. It's not important for a relationship that both partners like everything that the other does. There are almost certainly interests of hers that I wouldn't like myself.
On the other hand, if you mean that the girl wants me to stop penspinning altogether, that's a different story. In this case, it seems like the girl is trying to stifle my interests in things other than her. Then it's not really about the penspinning, because she probably wouldn't want me to be interested in other hobbies either. In this situation, it seems that you'd have to work through clingy/possessive behavior, and you've got a lot bigger problems than not penspinning.
I assumed you meant the first case, so I voted "Yes" -
Date: Sun, Oct 12 2008 18:56:29
I wouldn't. If somebody doesn't support/understand your hobbies based on thinking that its ONLY stupid and pointless, that just proves them to be ignorant, arrogant, and selfish.
They shouldn't be ones to judge, if it was drugs or something that's understandable.
I would prefer not to be close to somebody who is close minded and have no regard for what other people like and believe.
..assholes. -
Date: Sun, Oct 12 2008 22:06:01
Too young for me to date. haha but I would't enter a relationship that the girl would just say "I'm not dating you cuz u pen spin". Seems a bit unreasonable to me. I could however just spin less often.
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Date: Sun, Oct 12 2008 22:18:30
Sure, i dont expect the girl to enjoy everything i do.
But....why would someone hate something such as spinning pens? -
Date: Mon, Oct 13 2008 00:02:18
Depends on the level of hate... If it's just a dislike then I'll just spin when she's not around. If she's like "NO PEN TWIRLING EVAR!!!!111!1!!" then screw that... though I don't see anybody having that much of a hate for spinning pens... I mean, what's there to hate?