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Serious Discussion / Oral sex.

  1. EssenceOfLife
    Date: Sat, Jan 2 2010 19:24:23

    What do you think are the moral aspects of this compared to vaginal intercourse.

    I personally believe they are the same, in the way that virginity is not only physical innocence but also the "cleanliness" as well...

    They both can transmit STD's (there's some other more proper term...) And they are both a kind of physical intrusion.

    So what do you think? Religiously, if you are told to abstain from sex until marriage does this include other activities including but not limited to Oral sex?

    And then after Oral sex's moral implications are compared to Vaginal intercourse what about such things as the act of mutual masturbation aka handjobs etc...

    Discuss..

  2. strat1227
    Date: Sat, Jan 2 2010 19:29:05

    Eh, depends on if you see anything morally wrong with vaginal sex.

    Oral sex is a good alternative if you are worried about pregnancy. But as far as 'is it sex', I say yes. If you've got an issue with vaginal sex but run around licking/blowing anything that walks, that makes you a hypocrite in my book.

    EDIT: Oh, however I do classically define virginity as not having had VAGINAL sex. There's definitely a difference between "innocent' and "virgin"

  3. UEDan
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 03:06:43

    Yes it still sex, but like Strat said, its not losing the your "virginity" "virginity". Your mouth's innocence yes.
    Its a step above mutual masturbation but a few steps below sex sex.

  4. Nation
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 03:11:52

    They say condoms taste bad.

  5. PillarsOfValhalla
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 05:05:52

    QUOTE (Nation @ Jan 2 2010, 07:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    They say condoms taste bad.

    facepalm.gif

  6. UEDan
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 05:32:17

    QUOTE (Nation @ Jan 2 2010, 07:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    They say condoms taste bad.


    I'm just gonna say what everyone is thinking:
    You are "they" aren't you?

  7. strat1227
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 05:35:07

    QUOTE (UEDan @ Jan 3 2010, 12:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    I'm just gonna say what everyone is thinking:
    You are "they" aren't you?

  8. Glamouraz
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 05:39:33

    Dood. They have strawberry flavoured ones for a reason man..

    For me, anything that isn't vaginal sex means you're still virgin.

    It doesn't not mean you didn't have sex though.

  9. strat1227
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 05:42:11

    QUOTE (Glamouraz @ Jan 3 2010, 12:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    It doesn't not mean you didn't have sex though.


    Erm, huh?


    Protip: Flavoured condoms are a waste, if she's blowing you you shouldn't wear a condom, if you're fucking her, her pussy ain't gonna taste it.

  10. Simplex
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 05:46:37

    QUOTE (Glamouraz @ Jan 3 2010, 12:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    Dood. They have strawberry flavoured ones for a reason man..

    For me, anything that isn't vaginal sex means you're still virgin.

    It doesn't not mean you didn't have sex though.


    yah i pretty much share the same view.

  11. Glamouraz
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 05:49:31

    sorry slip of mind.

    It doesn't mean you didn't have sex.

    That's what I meant to say.

  12. neix
    Date: Sun, Jan 3 2010 05:52:43

    QUOTE (strat1227 @ Jan 3 2010, 12:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    if she's blowing you you shouldn't wear a condom, if you're fucking her, her pussy ain't gonna taste it.


    +1

  13. Pen Ninja
    Date: Wed, Jan 27 2010 02:42:57

    QUOTE (strat1227 @ Jan 3 2010, 02:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    if she's blowing you you shouldn't wear a condom, if you're fucking her, her pussy ain't gonna taste it.


    +2

    why would one wear a condom for a bj? to ward off stds? why would one get with a whore likely to givbe u stds, especially via mouth?

  14. Colin
    Date: Wed, Jan 27 2010 02:45:30

    QUOTE (strat1227 @ Jan 2 2010, 09:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    Flavoured condoms are a waste, if she's blowing you you shouldn't wear a condom, if you're fucking her, her pussy ain't gonna taste it.

    Seriously.

    but in the end, if youre gonna eat her out, YOURE gonna taste it.
    Latex+pussy tastes like SHIT.

    Shit is actually a complement.

  15. blahblahting
    Date: Wed, Jan 27 2010 02:52:00

    QUOTE (strat1227 @ Jan 2 2010, 09:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    Erm, huh?


    Protip: Flavoured condoms are a waste, if she's blowing you you shouldn't wear a condom, if you're fucking her, her pussy ain't gonna taste it.


    LMAO so true xD uh i personally think oral sex doesnt count as "sex" but it definitely makes you "unclean"

    all depends on personal ethics

  16. AwonW
    Date: Wed, Jan 27 2010 02:52:27

    QUOTE (Pen Ninja @ Jan 26 2010, 06:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    +2

    why would one wear a condom for a bj? to ward off stds? why would one get with a whore likely to givbe u stds, especially via mouth?

    Yeah stds, why do you think people use these: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dental_dam ? You can never be sure about who's going to give you an std or not sleep(1).gif

  17. strat1227
    Date: Wed, Jan 27 2010 16:40:02

    QUOTE (AwonW @ Jan 26 2010, 09:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    Yeah stds, why do you think people use these: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dental_dam ? You can never be sure about who's going to give you an std or not sleep(1).gif


    lol you can if you only have sex with someone you're intimate with.

    yeah, if you have one night stands twice a week, you'll likely end up with some sort of STI (they reclassified them, STD isn't the official term anymore ohmy.gif).

  18. Janselmi
    Date: Thu, Jan 28 2010 14:31:04

    Its sex. Oh god I love oral.

  19. Pen Ninja
    Date: Mon, Feb 1 2010 12:51:52

    QUOTE (Colin @ Jan 27 2010, 11:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    Seriously.

    but in the end, if youre gonna eat her out, YOURE gonna taste it.
    Latex+pussy tastes like SHIT.

    Shit is actually a complement.


    clearly if u have to do that u didnt do a good enough job before hand

  20. neXus
    Date: Mon, Feb 1 2010 16:13:53

    I don't get how people can watch it. Whenever I watch porn (which is daily, lets face it) I skip BJ scenes. If I wanted close ups of a dick I'd watch some gay porn or youporn some male masturbation.

    Man on woman oral: Meh, depends on the vagina. If he spits on it to lubricate it or w/e I skip immediately.

    Woman on woman: Yes please.

  21. Colin
    Date: Tue, Feb 2 2010 04:25:49

    QUOTE (neXus @ Feb 1 2010, 08:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    I don't get how people can watch it. Whenever I watch porn (which is daily, lets face it) I skip BJ scenes. If I wanted close ups of a dick I'd watch some gay porn or youporn some male masturbation.

    Man on woman oral: Meh, depends on the vagina. If he spits on it to lubricate it or w/e I skip immediately.

    Woman on woman: Yes please.

    I agree with this 100%.