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Spammer's Bin / Thnikk needs your help
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Date: Mon, Jan 11 2010 05:32:54
Normally I'm against this shit, but this is kind of different. As some of you know (and those who don't, you can still help) theres a girl that moved, sent a letter, fucked it up, moved back, blah blah blah. I've seen her twice since she came back around thanksgiving but another friend of mine was there both times. I just want to hang out with her alone and I have no problem with setting that up. What I need from you is an idea of what to do with her. I have movie passes but it would probably be an all day thing since she lives a few towns away and I need something else to add onto it. It's not a date or anything, I just want to hang out with her because I haven't been able to really talk to her for about 6 months. Any help from you guys would be really appreciated <3
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Date: Mon, Jan 11 2010 05:34:31
Buy a van.
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Date: Mon, Jan 11 2010 05:40:43
umm bring her to a gather and sneak off xD
ummm take her to a early movie, the mall then dinner?
or amusement parks are fun... sort of
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Date: Mon, Jan 11 2010 06:17:40
1. why did you post this in SB
2. try to avoid movies cuz thats not really a good place to talk to a person
3. go somewhere that's interactive. i cant think of any atm but ya know
4. get some delish food
5. do something memorable. ya know -
Date: Mon, Jan 11 2010 07:46:07QUOTE (SJ @ Jan 11 2010, 02:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>why did you post this in SB
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Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 00:56:51
Hmm...
Since going out for dinner would be stupid for a little kiddy like yourself, I suggest around Morning/Noonish (I prefer morning because anything is 10 times cuter in the morning :3) you guys could go to like a bakery or something and you could buy her a snack =3
And maybe if there's a promenade nearby you guys could walk around and go shopping and you could hold all her clothes outside the fitting room while she tries them on, because apparently you just want to be in her friend zone. -
Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 01:01:05
Go shopping
go bowling
shoot some guns
secks -
Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 01:45:37QUOTE (spinneraddiction @ Jan 10 2010, 09:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>umm bring her to a gather and sneak off xD
ummm take her to a early movie, the mall then dinner?
or amusement parks are fun... sort of
hope this helps
BTW, I am very short on money.QUOTE (SJ @ Jan 10 2010, 10:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>1. why did you post this in SB
2. try to avoid movies cuz thats not really a good place to talk to a person
3. go somewhere that's interactive. i cant think of any atm but ya know
4. get some delish food
5. do something memorable. ya know
1. Because I am more of a spammer than a spinner and could probably relate better to the people who will reply that in OT. BUT If a mod could move it into OT I would appreciate it ^^
2. Aw hell naw mang, we always talk in movies.
3. huh?
4. I am poor and 15
5. Kind ofQUOTE (XYZakiメAM @ Jan 11 2010, 04:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Hmm...
Since going out for dinner would be stupid for a little kiddy like yourself, I suggest around Morning/Noonish (I prefer morning because anything is 10 times cuter in the morning :3) you guys could go to like a bakery or something and you could buy her a snack =3
And maybe if there's a promenade nearby you guys could walk around and go shopping and you could hold all her clothes outside the fitting room while she tries them on, because apparently you just want to be in her friend zone.
FOR NOW. You know the story already and I'm just trying to reestablish our friendship because I haven't seen her in a while. In response to first part, that sounds nice. It wont be in my neighborhood but I'll try to figure something out.QUOTE (ION @ Jan 11 2010, 05:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Go shopping
go bowling
shoot some guns
secks
FUCK SHOPPING NO PLAWKS
that sounds nice too ^^
shoot babies in anus?
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Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 01:50:39
COMEDY CLUB
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Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 01:51:11QUOTE (Thnikk @ Jan 11 2010, 07:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>FUCK SHOPPING NO PLAWKS
that sounds nice too ^^
shoot babies in anus?
Not like actually go shopping. Like bop around a mall and eat some icecream or some shit. Romance her
And you can shoot them there if you want, but ask her if she wants to shoot first. Like a gentleman. -
Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 01:56:28
wut '-'
If he's short on money, why go to the mall? If you have a huge ass movie collection, you could invite her over to watch a movie. If not, rent a movie
Make her dinner at your place, and if your parents are cock-blockin' you, try eating out (at a restaurant).
I have no ideas for any morning/afternoon plans since that's when I wake up
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Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 02:28:45QUOTE (ION @ Jan 11 2010, 05:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Not like actually go shopping. Like bop around a mall and eat some icecream or some shit. Romance her
And you can shoot them there if you want, but ask her if she wants to shoot first. Like a gentleman.
k but everything sounds like it would be better over here. I'll ask if thats cool.
and mhm :]QUOTE (Pandamonium @ Jan 11 2010, 05:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>wut '-'
If he's short on money, why go to the mall? If you have a huge ass movie collection, you could invite her over to watch a movie. If not, rent a movie
Make her dinner at your place, and if your parents are cock-blockin' you, try eating out (at a restaurant).
I have no ideas for any morning/afternoon plans since that's when I wake up
Nothing at home, my mom is fucking crazy. -
Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 02:42:33QUOTE (Thnikk @ Jan 11 2010, 08:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>k but everything sounds like it would be better over here. I'll ask if thats cool.
and mhm :]
Nothing at home, my mom is fucking crazy.
Who are these people?
Can you go away please?
LOL -
Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 03:03:45QUOTE (ION @ Jan 11 2010, 06:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Who are these people?
Can you go away please?
LOL
huh? :C -
Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 03:10:55
if all you wanna do is talk, anythings fine...
hell you could bus around town with her till the transfer runs out and eat at the nearest restaurant to where you guys end up
gives you plenty of time to talk. and if you wanna spend the whole day with her you could go watch fuckign avatar, movie is so fucking long
edit: LMFAO at zaki's post -
Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 04:30:27
go to mall. movies is always awkward and u cant really talk to her. to teh mallz
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Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 04:32:40QUOTE (SJ @ Jan 10 2010, 10:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>2. try to avoid movies cuz thats not really a good place to talk to a person
Ditto
Go Bowling -
Date: Tue, Jan 12 2010 21:14:33
Personally, I always find cafes a nice place to talk. cafe doesn't always has to be a date. just go there, buy something nice to drink (shouldn't be too expensive) and maybe a small snack, and just chat~
a movie before/after could also work~
good luck~
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Date: Wed, Jan 13 2010 10:16:46
hide in a shoeXD
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Date: Thu, Jan 14 2010 02:35:24QUOTE (Thnikk @ Jan 11 2010, 05:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>FOR NOW. You know the story already and I'm just trying to reestablish our friendship because I haven't seen her in a while. In response to first part, that sounds nice. It wont be in my neighborhood but I'll try to figure something out.
You don't know what a friend zone is do you?
Males see Females only as people to have an intimate relationship with. Females can see males as that, HOWEVER, they can also see a male as a friend just like her other Female friends.
What this means is: the girl that sits behind you in history class thats always poking you and giggling, isn't doing it because she has a crush on you, or thinks you're cute, it's because she sees you as her friend.
Being in a girl's friend zone means that she thinks you're "safe" as in you aren't falling in love with her, and as far as she knows, you never will.
Thus, a romantic relationship can never spawn from being in a girl's friend zone.
Nevertheless, there may be exceptions, younger girls may not have a strict friend zone, and could possibly fall in love at any time...
...'Cause when you're fifteen and somebody tells you they love you,
You're gonna believe them. -
Date: Thu, Jan 14 2010 02:46:31QUOTE (XYZakiメAM @ Jan 13 2010, 09:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>You don't know what a friend zone is do you?
Males see Females only as people to have an intimate relationship with. Females can see males as that, HOWEVER, they can also see a male as a friend just like her other Female friends.
What this means is: the girl that sits behind you in history class thats always poking you and giggling, isn't doing it because she has a crush on you, or thinks you're cute, it's because she sees you as her friend.
Being in a girl's friend zone means that she thinks you're "safe" as in you aren't falling in love with her, and as far as she knows, you never will.
Thus, a romantic relationship can never spawn from being in a girl's friend zone.
Nevertheless, there may be exceptions, younger girls may not have a strict friend zone, and could possibly fall in love at any time...
...'Cause when you're fifteen and somebody tells you they love you,
You're gonna believe them.
this man speaks the truth
but i don't recall him ever saying he wanted to be anything more than friends?
unless i'm interpreting shit wrong
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Date: Thu, Jan 14 2010 03:35:58QUOTE (XYZakiメAM @ Jan 13 2010, 06:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>You don't know what a friend zone is do you?
Males see Females only as people to have an intimate relationship with. Females can see males as that, HOWEVER, they can also see a male as a friend just like her other Female friends.
What this means is: the girl that sits behind you in history class thats always poking you and giggling, isn't doing it because she has a crush on you, or thinks you're cute, it's because she sees you as her friend.
Being in a girl's friend zone means that she thinks you're "safe" as in you aren't falling in love with her, and as far as she knows, you never will.
Thus, a romantic relationship can never spawn from being in a girl's friend zone.
Nevertheless, there may be exceptions, younger girls may not have a strict friend zone, and could possibly fall in love at any time...
...'Cause when you're fifteen and somebody tells you they love you,
You're gonna believe them.
Umm I know what a friend zone is.
Yes I want to be more than friends but I haven't talked to her in months and just want to hang out.
THIS IS NOT MY PROBLEM, I JUST NEED IDEAS OF WHAT TO DO FOR THE WHOLE DAY. -
Date: Thu, Jan 14 2010 14:16:35
Bowling. :]
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Date: Fri, Jan 15 2010 00:24:53QUOTE (KT-13 @ Jan 14 2010, 06:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Bowling. :]
msn you fucker -
Date: Fri, Jan 15 2010 00:36:34
I agree with resonance. A cafe would be a nice place to talk. It is also very casual so there is no worries.
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Date: Fri, Jan 15 2010 00:44:20
if your to poor, walk around a park or something, or go eat at a restaurant where there usually isnt that many people and its quiet, or something you always go to, so you wont mind staying longer and chatting longer.
because u said this isnt a date, and you just wanna talk -
Date: Fri, Jan 15 2010 15:19:35
by the way, i'm 15. cafes and resturaunts seem a bit mature for me :/
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Date: Fri, Jan 15 2010 21:56:55
You should be focusing on your studies. LOL no i joke.
If ur not mature enough for cafes. Your not mature to date.
Just go for a walk around the park. -
Date: Fri, Jan 15 2010 22:10:48
he said its not a date........
its to catch up with his friend.
I honestly recamend mall you can shop, laugh, walk, talk, eat etc. you can definently spend a long time there with out getting supre bored. also its not to mature and a fun time for both of you. Also she won't be intemidating like if you took her to a fancy resturant, she might think your trying to hook up with her, but the mall is casual and you can hang out on a friend level.
good luck -
Date: Sat, Jan 16 2010 09:01:11
That might work if i can get her to come over here. Thanks everyone for your comments, I'll try to talk to her about it tomorrow for monday ^^
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Date: Sat, Jan 16 2010 22:23:26
You can ALWAYS go to a cafe for a drink.
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Date: Sat, Jan 16 2010 22:42:34QUOTE (XYZakiメAM @ Jan 13 2010, 09:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Males see Females only as people to have an intimate relationship with.
Lies. -
Date: Sun, Jan 17 2010 03:37:22QUOTE (KunLin @ Jan 13 2010, 06:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>but i don't recall him ever saying he wanted to be anything more than friends?
unless i'm interpreting shit wrong
Refer to quote below.QUOTE (Thnikk @ Jan 11 2010, 05:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>FOR NOW. You know the...
He wants to be in her friend zone "FOR NOW".QUOTE (Loanshark @ Jan 16 2010, 02:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Lies.
You can supress that feeling, but your natural instinct will be to stick it in her.
There's no way a guy can be in a room with a girl and not have those type of thoughts about her, whether its about sex or holding her hand, it's natural and inevitable. -
Date: Sun, Jan 17 2010 03:49:19
wtf im older than jack????????
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Date: Sun, Jan 17 2010 05:15:38
I know my fucking situation, I just need help with ONE thing. Damn.
and of course james -
Date: Thu, Jan 21 2010 01:40:22
Seriously just go to her house (or she comes to yours) and go for a walk and generally hang out ._.
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Date: Thu, Jan 21 2010 01:45:27
houses with 2 people of the opposite sex who arnt going out can get slightly awkward even if you are good friends.
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Date: Thu, Jan 21 2010 01:49:09QUOTE (Kirby @ Jan 20 2010, 08:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>houses with 2 people of the opposite sex who arnt going out can get slightly awkward even if you are good friends.
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Date: Thu, Jan 21 2010 01:56:00QUOTE (Kirby @ Jan 20 2010, 08:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>houses with 2 people of the opposite sex who arnt going out can get slightly awkward even if you are good friends.
Not really. The second time I met y gf was at her house. Maybe were both naturally gifted at talking about random stuff xD -
Date: Thu, Jan 21 2010 01:59:57QUOTE (JC @ Jan 20 2010, 05:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>disagree
haha of course... JC would know
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Date: Thu, Jan 21 2010 02:04:03
I'd disagree too, though.. Persons you've had romantic feelings for, of course, that will always be awkward in some sense when being ALONE with him/her. But if you've just been good friends for a while, there should be nothing wrong. And even girls DO have the problem at times. So if it happens, it's not male only. =/
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Date: Thu, Jan 21 2010 04:02:36
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Date: Thu, Jan 21 2010 05:37:35
I never feel awkward being alone with her.
And zuolin, though I should have posted this in OT, I would appreciate it if you could either contribute to the conversation or leave. thanks
Edit: btw, I was just planning on seeing a movie at teh mall, maybe walking around it for a while, coming back to my house and just hanging out here for a while. -
Date: Fri, Jan 22 2010 15:08:51QUOTE (Thnikk @ Jan 15 2010, 05:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>by the way, i'm 15. cafes and resturaunts seem a bit mature for me :/
I see what you mean, but I think it depends on the specific place.. there are more "serious" cafes, but there are also some normal ones, which are fun to sit in...
Doesn't have to be a cafe anyway, just a nice place to sit and chat over a nice drink.
Good luck anyway~QUOTE (XYZakiメAM @ Jan 17 2010, 05:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>You can supress that feeling, but your natural instinct will be to stick it in her.
There's no way a guy can be in a room with a girl and not have those type of thoughts about her, whether its about sex or holding her hand, it's natural and inevitable.
Yes, that will be his natural instinct. But the thing is, to realize that you're having those thoughts, and you might want to have sex with her, but you won't, since it's simply an impulse, and not what you really feel. I have a few female friends, and sure, I fantasized about sex or w/e with them, but I'll most likely never try to approach them that way.
my phrasing sucks, please excuse me, I hope I'm understood.