UPSB v3
Off-topic / Confusing girl @.@
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Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 08:26:15
Okay, so here is the situation:
I REALLY like this girl. She is amazingly kind and has the nicest personality. I really like her and want to start a relation ship but everything's confusing
Okay, so I see her in a couple of classes (about 1 a day) and I will normally sit with her and her friends.
Some things which would make me believe she likes me:
She laughs at like all the funny things I say.
I once turned to look at her and she was all ready looking at me. When our eyes met, she quickly looked away and smiled.
She finds the topics I would talk about interesting.
A couple of days ago when I told her about a dramatic situation, she said "I love you" and hugged me.
Things which make me doubt it:
She's nice to everyone
She laughs at a lot of things.
She has tons of friends which are guys.
Okay so today is what got me the most confused though..... I always walk with her to and from Math and English (since I am in her classes) and after English today, I welled up the confidence to tell her that I like her and this is how the convo went (I'll call her Kim):
*Talk about 1st person shooter games* (she really likes these xD)
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Me - So Kim, I don't know if you realized it or not (I was giving obvious signs) but I really like you.
Kim - Aww. I really like you too. You're so interesting!
Me - Thanks :3
-Awkward silence till bottom of staires -
Me - Well, cya Kim!
Kim (shakey voice) - cya Luke.
Help? Ugh... love eh?
FFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUU- I'm going insane! -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 08:38:00
1. pics nao (jk, not really, but jk)
2. just ask her out. be a man -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 08:41:21
says SJ the pimp
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Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 09:44:55
i was in this situation once. now the girl and i hate eachother
drag it out a little more, see what happens.
wtf, dont listen to me, im a freshman, barely 15. -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 10:10:42
Sometime when girls are nice to guys doesn't always mean that the girls are interested in them. In your occasion, she said that she likes you too. I think she expected you to ask her out but instead there nothing because of the silence. Sometime girls prefer guys to ask the them out, not the opposite. I know it might be difficult but it is worth it. Girls wants to be special therefor ask her out "want to hang out at the....." and see how she reacts. If you can see she doesn't look comfortable with that then try to tell her friends can come along too. Start out slow and learn more about her. Try to see how she react when she talks to you about it. Like you said, she is nice to everyone and has many friends (guys). Therefor be careful for not breaking the friendship. It will be very awkward.
I wish you good luck! Remember don't be shy or afraid. Ask her out otherwise you will regret it later
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Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 12:00:57
First of all, listen to her ^ =P
2nd, it sounds like you too are already close. So as hard as it may be, just try and suggest that you two hang out somewhere or something- if she feels the same as you do, you win (
). If she doesn't, she'll simply tell you she's not really interested in a relationship or w/e, and you could still be close friends.
ok after reading this, it sounds lame >.> it sounded better when I though about it in hebrew ._.
but yeah, just go with it- if she's not interested, well, maybe you'll find another girl, or maybe she just needs some time =P -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 15:26:45
Honestly, ask her out on a date. If you're not a twat and she's single, she will probably quite like to go on a date.
Just be yourself, except maybe try not to insult them on the first date. That has to wait until 'dating' is over and 'living together' has begun.
And if the date doesn't work out, you probably won't think about her forever. In time, you will move on. Don't fuck things up by trying to hard. If it didn't work out, it didn't work out. No loss, no gain. -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 17:34:58
One of my friends once told me something... "You will end up knee deep in shit anyway, what matters is when and for how long"
Generally "later" means "for longer" in this case. The longer you wait, the longer you suffer, if she refuses you. On the other hand, if she fell in love with you too... The longer you are with her, the longer you suffer after the breakup(let's be honest - no relationship lasts forever).
However, if you tell her too soon, she might tell you that "we don't know each other very well" and "it's too soon for something like that" or w/e, but if she do, you will suffer for only a little time.
Sounds like a two-edge weapon, innit? But believe me, or if not me, believe others, it's worth it. The time you might be together, the memories, the experiences, even if painful in the end, they are priceless.
So if you want an advise, even from a relationship-pessimist, I cannot do otherwise than repeat what others said: go for it, or you might regret it later. -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 17:42:57
The thing I hate
Close Friends -> Crush -> Relationship -> break up -> never talk.
If you think that might happen, and would prefer years of close friendship over (insert guesstimation of relationship time here) of a relationship, then don't ask her. -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 18:53:57QUOTE (Prince @ Mar 23 2010, 12:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>The thing I hate
Close Friends -> Crush -> Relationship -> break up -> never talk.
If you think that might happen, and would prefer years of close friendship over (insert guesstimation of relationship time here) of a relationship, then don't ask her.
Lol, I'm not worried about that! She's not an unsociable person at all and even if she did say no we would be friends What I'm worried about is her saying no because I really like her... almost love (It's a big step up imo)! We've only known eachother for like 2 weeks so I don't think we're in the friend zone (I hope :|).
Here's what I'm planning: On Tuesday we have our next class together. Afterward I'll walk with her down to lunch and I'll say something along the lines of "Remember what I said earlier? I don't know if you understood me right but like like you."
Scenario 1:
Kim: Yea I know, you told me on Tuesday and I said I liked you too!
Me (thinking) : FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUU-
Me (speaking): oh ops. I thought you misunderstood. Do you wanna see a movie this weekend or something? I have a free ticket!
Kim: Yea Sure.
Me: :3
Scenario 2:
Kim: Ohhhhhh...
Me (thinking): Oh shit...
Me (speakinhg) So, Do you wanna see a movie this weekend or something? I have a free ticket!
Kim: No sorry. I'd rather just stay friends.
Me: ._.
Scenario 3:
Kim: Ohhhhh. Cool, I like you that way aswell
Me (thinking): yyuuuuuuuussssss
Me (speaking): *face lights up* That's so cool! Do you wanna see a movie this weekend or something? I have a free ticket!
Kim: Sounds fun!
Me:
Prolly be Scenario 1 or 3... I hope.
FUCK! I'm waaaayyyy over thinking this ._. -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 20:00:55
go for it! you never know if you dont try =] but try and keep the situation light and not to let her think that your uncomfortable or nervous to ask her out, cause you want to let the mood be happy and joyous. <----- that sounds lame ˙‾˙ but still go for it =P good luck!
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Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 20:10:13
yo can you send me free ticket
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Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 20:12:44QUOTE (Tushix @ Mar 23 2010, 02:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>What I'm worried about is her saying no because I really like her... almost love (It's a big step up imo)! We've only known each other for like 2 weeks so I don't think we're in the friend zone (I hope :|).
I'm sorry, but I chuckled a little.
You've known each other for 2 weeks and you're claiming that you're already in love with her? I think there's a lot more for you to find out about her before you can truly say that.
I know you want to ask her out and all, but really, if I were you I'd take more time to get to know her...sorry If I've been a killyjoy :/
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Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 20:17:01
Ok. All my hormones an shit stopped running wild last year since I'm 17.
Take advice from a guy who talks to girls daily. QUOTEMe - So Kim, I don't know if you realized it or not (I was giving obvious signs) but I really like you.
Kim - Aww. I really like you too. You're so interesting!
Me - Thanks :3
-Awkward silence till bottom of staires -
Me - Well, cya Kim!
Kim (shakey voice) - cya Luke.
Here's your first problem. You told her you liked her, but you didn't do anything? The awkward silence was her waiting for you to ask her.
You seemed like you just wanted to get it off of your chest, but once you did, you felt great, but forgetting the important part, asking her out. .-.
If it's been a week since you said that, you pretty much failed. There might be some feelings left for you, but it won't be as strong. There's a possibility that if you ask her out, she'll still say yes. Don't over analyze or think with your dick. Swallow your pussy shit and ask her. Girls like guys who take the initiative. Definitely don't ask her in front of her friends. It makes it even worse. -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 20:25:09
Do what I do. Put on blackface and try to win her affection with an African fertility dance.
60% of the time it works every time. -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 20:42:43QUOTE (colourfulXinsanity @ Mar 23 2010, 09:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>I'm sorry, but I chuckled a little.
You've known each other for 2 weeks and you're claiming that you're already in love with her? I think there's a lot more for you to find out about her before you can truly say that.
I know you want to ask her out and all, but really, if I were you I'd take more time to get to know her...sorry If I've been a killyjoy :/
As long as "falling in love" is a chemical reaction in your brain, then yes, he can say that, cause it can happen instantly/in a small time span :/ (personal experience)
And taking your time might help, yet can be a knife in your back if someone is faster than you, and that fucking hurts (also from personal experience) :/
To say the truth, I don't know him and I don't know her... Kinda hard making advises then, ain't it :/ -
Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 21:50:38QUOTE (neXus @ Mar 23 2010, 01:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Do what I do. Put on blackface and try to win her affection with an African fertility dance.
60% of the time it works every time.
How I love you nexus
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Date: Tue, Mar 23 2010 23:40:38
love is for the weak. show no emotions.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 02:41:36
10 bucks you get friendzoned
but i think most of my points were summed up
1. grow a pair and ask her out
2. .... duh, punch her in the face if she friendzones you?
NB: if she says no to date, future meetings with said friend may be weird (atleast for her)
hey, lets make this even more confusing
if you really like her as a friend, be cautious
- if ur confident in it working out, go for it
- if not, .... rethink
if you like her more as a *waist thrust* than a friend
- go for it
- ????
- profit -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 02:45:07
iF your really good friends but in highschool or younger don't do it. She'll either say no and you get sad, and it might get awkward. Or she says yes, you go out, break up, and the friendship is destroyed.In the case she sais yes and you don't think it'll last, tap that pussy and dump her
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:18:17
OKay. CXI: Wait what? I said love is a big step up and that I could see myself loving her... (I guess words came out wrong)
Here's what I'm gonna do:
1 Ask her out tomorow (from then it'll only be 2 days since I told her I liked her)
2 ???
3 Profit
wow, what a plan xD -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:19:14
love is for the weak. show no emotions.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:23:08
I wont show them. They'll rest at the heart >:D
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:25:35QUOTE (VendettaBF @ Mar 23 2010, 10:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>love is for the weak. show no emotions.
he'll use telekinisis (spelling) and pop them into her head. then they fuck and break up and the freind ship is ruined -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:31:04
Be a man. DO the right thing.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:39:48
Here's my advice, don't ask for girl advice on upsb.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:53:21QUOTE (iamk34n3 @ Mar 24 2010, 11:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Here's my advice, don't ask for girl advice on the internet
fixd -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:54:00
Present her with the carcass of an animal bigger than you.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 03:55:51
It's allll planned out now ^^
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 07:32:31QUOTE (Boshi @ Mar 23 2010, 02:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>wtf, dont listen to me, im a freshman, barely 15.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 07:49:15
Here's real man advice.
Ask yourself this, if you weren't able to hug her/kiss her/be close physically, would you still like her?
If so, continue on, if not stop now you're chasing a bad relationship.
Some girls are naturally flirty and that's simply how their personality is. Guys don't exactly tend to notice this. They will throw around saying, "I like you/I love her" like spare change. That's simply how they are.
If you want to test boundaries best thing to do is simply ask her out to lunch or some place where you guys can talk. Don't invite her to a movie or to come play some video games, that just tells her you just want to hang out. Hell even ask her to go for a walk.
Now when it comes to the asking out part you really need to understand this: "It's a 50/50 chance that she can get turned off by a lack of confidence/nervousness or finds shyness cute." The best way to avoid this is to be calm, don't let your head get the best of you and your heart start racing. That will buzzkill your ability to sound confident.
When asking her don't ask, "Will you go out with me?" that means absolutely nothing. Something more personal along the lines of, "I enjoy being with you and I would like to get to know you better." Make it a statement. Confidence here buddy.
Simple steps. Do It and good luck.
Regards,
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 08:02:01
vote imatt for UPSB Guidance councilor!!
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 09:10:52QUOTE (VendettaBF @ Mar 24 2010, 12:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>love is for the weak. show no emotions.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 09:32:29
Oh, and one other thing- STOP OVER ANALYZING. it won't help you.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 13:16:41
From reading this thread, all I can see is... Nearly everyone here has no idea.
There's no 'friendzone' - I've been out with woman I was friends with first. I know others that have done this. Some of them are still together. Other people, have met someone and asked them out nearly immediately, and ended up with them. Others, aren't even sure how they ended up together or if they were friends first or not.
There's no point in making plans of how to ask someone out - Just go up and ask. You don't plan how you're going to ask at a shop if they stock an item or how to ask a friend if they want to go to the pub, you just do it. This is just the same.
Yeah and stop over-analyzing.
Pretty funny stuff there neXus and vendettaBF, made me smile -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 18:52:57
BIG thanks to iMatt and Mats (we have a theme going on here
) I wish there was a thanks button here right now
If I get the balls today I'll post any progression xD -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 21:07:40QUOTE (neXus @ Mar 23 2010, 10:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Present her with the carcass of an animal bigger than you.
My dad hunts and I could give you a few if you want one tushixQUOTE (Tushix @ Mar 24 2010, 01:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>BIG thanks to iMatt and Mats (we have a theme going on here) I wish there was a thanks button here right now
If I get the balls today I'll post any progression xD
If you really want, thanks one of there other random posts in a thankable thread. If that is OK?....
My real advice is you should know if she likes you before you ask her out. Maybe ask her who she likes, just figure out if she likes you. If your pretty sure she does ask her out.
EDIT: ahh nvm you probably don't want advice from someone much younger than you
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 21:30:32
unrelated the this thread but @kirby you can only thank stuff related to psing and board use. So thanking a random post because of something they said in off-topic probably isnt allowed.
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Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 21:55:04QUOTE (Kirby @ Mar 24 2010, 04:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>EDIT: ahh nvm you probably don't want advice from someone much younger than you
Tushix is 15. If you are "much younger" then I would assume that you were at most, 13. In which case, it's idiotic to say this:QUOTE (Kirby @ Mar 23 2010, 09:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>In the case she sais yes and you don't think it'll last, tap that pussy and dump her
I mean, would your mother approve of that sort of language?QUOTE (iMatt @ Mar 24 2010, 02:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Here's real man advice.
Ask yourself this, if you weren't able to hug her/kiss her/be close physically, would you still like her?
If so, continue on, if not stop now you're chasing a bad relationship.
Some girls are naturally flirty and that's simply how their personality is. Guys don't exactly tend to notice this. They will throw around saying, "I like you/I love her" like spare change. That's simply how they are.
qft.
Real love goes past physical desires and into something deeper.QUOTE (iMatt @ Mar 24 2010, 02:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you want to test boundaries best thing to do is simply ask her out to lunch or some place where you guys can talk. Don't invite her to a movie or to come play some video games, that just tells her you just want to hang out. Hell even ask her to go for a walk.
Movies aren't good for dates. At all. What are you going to be doing? Watching the movie, or talking to the girl you like. I live in Florida, so going to the beach was the best. There's nothing to distract you except nature and her. If you don't live by a beach, go for a walk in a park.
Best of luck!
Oh, and by the way, personal experience here, if you're already good friends with her (you said 2 weeks that you've known her, so I assume not) and you value your friendship, I would not date her at a young age. When you break up... which eventually you will do, don't count on talking to her/her talking to you again in any sort of serious conversation. -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 22:34:22QUOTE (Wind @ Mar 23 2010, 10:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Be a man. DO the right thing.
I'm surprised no one pointed this out.
Russel Peters! Someone's gonna get a hurt... -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 22:54:27QUOTE (VendettaBF @ Mar 23 2010, 08:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>love is for the weak. show no emotions.
wow epic lolol -
Date: Wed, Mar 24 2010 23:37:07QUOTE (Chief_Snake @ Feb 3 2010, 10:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Spoiler:
me and the slut who cheated on me:
Spoiler:QUOTE (Chief_Snake @ Mar 24 2010, 04:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Tushix is 15. If you are "much younger" then I would assume that you were at most, 13. In which case, it's idiotic to say this:
I mean, would your mother approve of that sort of language?
qft.
Real love goes past physical desires and into something deeper.
Movies aren't good for dates. At all. What are you going to be doing? Watching the movie, or talking to the girl you like. I live in Florida, so going to the beach was the best. There's nothing to distract you except nature and her. If you don't live by a beach, go for a walk in a park.
Best of luck!
Oh, and by the way, personal experience here, if you're already good friends with her (you said 2 weeks that you've known her, so I assume not) and you value your friendship, I would not date her at a young age. When you break up... which eventually you will do, don't count on talking to her/her talking to you again in any sort of serious conversation.
does your mother approve of this gayness? also I read the headshotz thread and you said "fuk off now kplzthx" does your mother approve of that. AHHH hypocrytes.
EDIT: I feel stupid cuz someone already quoted this gay pic and used it against him. -
Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 00:02:35QUOTE (Pandamonium @ Mar 24 2010, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>I'm surprised no one pointed this out.
Russel Peters! Someone's gonna get a hurt...
I dun care -
Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 00:37:31
I'd like to point out that everyone is making this too complicated.
Do what you think feels natural, that way you are being yourself.
@cxi I think he wants to ask her out so he can get to know her better, but on a more personal level. -
Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 01:11:55QUOTE (neXus @ Mar 23 2010, 01:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Do what I do. Put on blackface and try to win her affection with an African fertility dance.
60% of the time it works every time.QUOTE (neXus @ Mar 23 2010, 08:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Present her with the carcass of an animal bigger than you.
I'm surprised no one's commented on these great pieces of advice. -
Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 02:25:38QUOTE (Kirby @ Mar 24 2010, 04:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>EDIT: I feel stupid cuz someone already quoted this gay pic and used it against him.
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Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 08:19:21QUOTE (AwonW @ Mar 25 2010, 09:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>I'm surprised no one's commented on these great pieces of advice.
no one's commented because its common sense to do that
the carcass option is especially great in that you can share a meal together as well -
Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 08:43:46
Holy shit... This could not have gotten more confusing! I told her my feeling towards her and got:
Oh woops. Should have seen that (referring to Tuesday). I don't know what to say:). I am surprised
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Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 09:01:54
god. girls are so vague. what the hell.
just take it slow if she doesnt really answer directly.
take her out to dinner. watch a movie. walk around. shop together.
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Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 10:06:01
you know, I wouldn't date a guy if I knew he gets his moves from other people cause I'll never be able to know and feel the real him, but that's just me
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Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 12:34:21QUOTE (MinEste @ Mar 25 2010, 06:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>you know, I wouldn't date a guy if I knew he gets his moves from other people cause I'll never be able to know and feel the real him, but that's just me
i wouldn't say he's "getting moves"
if we use chess as an analogy, its more "should i move knight" than "where should i move my knight"
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Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 18:46:32
MinEste: I'm not getting moves off other people
I'm just asking what they think about the situation and getting some helpful, responses. There are no "moves" in my book anyway :/ I'm always myself. Anyway, I'll see how things slide today -
Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 19:33:41QUOTE (Tushix @ Mar 25 2010, 02:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>MinEste: I'm not getting moves off other people I'm just asking what they think about the situation and getting some helpful, responses. There are no "moves" in my book anyway :/ I'm always myself. Anyway, I'll see how things slide today
orly? I thought...QUOTE (neXus @ Mar 23 2010, 11:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Present her with the carcass of an animal bigger than you.
was a great move that you would've been tempted to use..... =P
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but i don't think there's a problem with asking about girl problems, i'm sure girls ask their girl friends about boy problems, and my guy friends talkl to me about their girl problems too
only problem here is... (as i think keane said?) is you're asking upsb.. -
Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 19:54:48
perhaps he can't talk to his real friends about it. Maybe he doesn't trust them, or they don't know anything
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Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 21:18:07QUOTE (AwonW @ Mar 24 2010, 08:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>I'm surprised no one's commented on these great pieces of advice.
I commented and said I could lend Tushix one if he couldnt obtain one himself
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Date: Thu, Mar 25 2010 22:40:07
pathetic weaklings.
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 00:04:12
she probably just wants to be friends... unless you play your cards right.
all you need to do is text her "I have a 12 inch and I know how to use it" -
Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 00:10:16
WALK ON THE BEACH DURING THE SUNSET
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 00:37:43QUOTE (Wind @ Mar 25 2010, 07:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>DURING THE BEACH, WALK ON THE SUNSET
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 01:00:22
love is shameful to the human specie. loving someone is admitting that you can't pleasure your self at night.
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 02:46:36QUOTE (VendettaBF @ Mar 25 2010, 06:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>love is shameful to the human specie. loving someone is admitting that you can't pleasure your self at night.
but someone else pleasures you.
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 03:03:05
She said yes
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 03:11:28
congrats dude
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 04:28:24
So ... what animal did you go with?
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 04:30:03
my animal of choice would nexus ^^
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 04:32:30
so...
walking along the beach during the sunset?
that's my boy. All I ever taught you worked. -
Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 04:52:02
He swallowed that pussy shit and grew a pair of almighty testicles enough to muster the courage to court a young woman; therefore, it was my upbringing.
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 06:57:09
Details ?
what did you say? -
Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 07:18:26
So is this going to be the new "Girl help" thread? Its already up to 4 pages....
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Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 08:37:21
Prince: I just talked to her about it and she asked "but what kind of stuff will we do once we go out" This had me stumped and I told her I just wanted to be around her more and know her more than a friend.
Ta-da. Win -
Date: Fri, Mar 26 2010 12:58:57
Whoo. Alright. I know exactly how you feel man. This was almost the exact same situation i had with Mira,(diff schools though, obviously) but look at us now. <3
First and last thing. Be sure first you know what you're getting yourself into.
I remember my first girlfriend two years ago. Knew her for TWO DAYS, liked her, she liked me, we became together three weeks later, broke up four months later. Talk about short-lived, right?
That's my two cents for ya.
Good luck. -
Date: Sat, May 1 2010 01:36:16
Congrats!
i guess im late bcuz it already turned out great, but in any case just loved everyone's advice (from the wierd to the decent).
and to celebrate love: -
Date: Sat, May 1 2010 03:57:02QUOTE (Chobi @ Mar 26 2010, 07:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Whoo. Alright. I know exactly how you feel man. This was almost the exact same situation i had with Mira,(diff schools though, obviously) but look at us now. <3
First and last thing. Be sure first you know what you're getting yourself into.
I remember my first girlfriend two years ago. Knew her for TWO DAYS, liked her, she liked me, we became together three weeks later, broke up four months later. Talk about short-lived, right?
That's my two cents for ya.
Good luck.
BUT CHOBI IS MIRA!?!?!?!? remember Cylde's thread? -
Date: Sat, May 1 2010 04:14:34
what the hell with the revive man
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Date: Sat, May 1 2010 04:25:31QUOTE (Yanos @ May 1 2010, 12:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>what the hell with the revive man
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Date: Sat, May 1 2010 04:31:01
PICS OR GTFO
i kid i kid -
Date: Sat, May 1 2010 09:05:40
Gawd you're awkward, and I'll be honest: It sounds as if the only reason she agreed to go out with you is because she is the "nice person" that you described. The odds are she is incredibly conscious of how others view her, and when you say something, such as "I really like you," you put her in a position where she feels obligated to respond with an appropriate, reciprocating statement.
Perhaps she really does like you as a friend, and hopes that your relationship will not progress beyond that level.
Perhaps she doesn't know how to answer you because she does not have any dating experience.
Whichever is the correct interpretation of the situation, I'm certain it has more to do with social pressure than it does with her genuine interest in you. Thus, I'll leave you with this advice: Don't be a try-hard. If you like someone, then pause for a while, get to know them better, and wait to see if you actually have anything worth developing. Contrary to popular opinion, people do not fall in love because of five-minute walks from English to History a few times a week~ -
Date: Sun, May 2 2010 01:17:10
Shit man! I think I know what the fuck I'm doing if I still have a relationship with her >.> I don't think you can judge people on the internet very well. One awkward moment = Me an awkward person? HAHA I'm the exact opposite! I'm the type of person who would break the ice and make people laugh, not the awkward guy. As for 5min walks, When I was getting to know her, I spent 400mins a week at least with her from 2 Maths lessons and 2 English, not to mention lunch and walks between classes.
Anyway, this thread should be dead xD -
Date: Sun, May 2 2010 02:54:48QUOTE (Tushix @ May 1 2010, 08:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Shit man! I think I know what the fuck I'm doing if I still have a relationship with her >.> I don't think you can judge people on the internet very well. One awkward moment = Me an awkward person? HAHA I'm the exact opposite! I'm the type of person who would break the ice and make people laugh, not the awkward guy. As for 5min walks, When I was getting to know her, I spent 400mins a week at least with her from 2 Maths lessons and 2 English, not to mention lunch and walks between classes.
Anyway, this thread should be dead xD
counting those minutes a bit obsessive -
Date: Sun, May 2 2010 09:52:05
pics? :)
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Date: Wed, May 5 2010 03:44:33
didnt someone like, Logic or someone post one of these threads a while back? that thread was like 40 pages or so if i remember.
